From War Zones to Bureaucratic Battles
The Reality of War and Migration
Today, there was a direct hit on a kindergarten in Acre. The children, thank God, were already home. In Kfar Saba, teachers refused to let a ten-year-old boy into the shelter because he was in the bathroom during the alarm. And here I am, safe in Canada with my wife’s family and friends. Good people, kind and generous, even though we’re quite a nuisance. Their house is spacious, but we still seem to take up too much space – especially with the noise we bring.
The Struggles of Starting Over
For two days now, I’ve been trying to submit my work permit application. I managed to fill out one form and create an account in the Canadian immigration system. That’s it. I couldn’t do more, and the frustration spilled over onto my wife and children.
Yesterday, $2,000 for an immigration consultant seemed like an outrageous amount. Today, I decided that domestic peace is worth so much more. Yet, I still haven’t sent the documents to the consultant. Why? Because I couldn’t get proper bank approval to prove to the Canadians I had enough funds. And because I lost my international driver’s license, including proof of my driving experience.
Hopes and Fears
Tomorrow, I hope to send what needs to be sent. I hope they won’t ask me to fill out more forms. I hope no more missiles fall on kindergartens. I hope this nightmare ends. I hope my parents stop calling to tell me how much they miss me. And above all, I hope to fulfill my dreams – before the world burns.
Practical Tips: Navigating Immigration Forms and Staying Grounded
• Don’t Hesitate to Ask for Professional Help
The process of submitting immigration forms can be overwhelming, especially when emotions and external pressures are high. While hiring a consultant may seem expensive, it can save you time, frustration, and even strain on relationships. Consider the cost as an investment in peace of mind.
• Organize Documents Beforehand
Gather all required documents, such as financial statements and proof of driving experience, before starting the application process. Having everything prepared in advance can prevent delays and reduce stress when deadlines approach.
• Set Realistic Daily Goals
Breaking down the application process into smaller, manageable steps can help you stay focused. For example, aim to complete one form or gather one document each day. Progress, even if slow, builds momentum.
• Communicate with Your Family
Migration affects everyone in the family differently. Open communication can prevent frustrations from escalating into conflict. Share your challenges with your loved ones and involve them in the process when possible.
• Maintain Perspective Amid Bureaucracy
When the forms feel endless, remember the bigger picture – why you’re doing this and what it will mean for your future. Connecting with your reasons can provide motivation and clarity, even during the most frustrating moments.
Immigration isn’t just about paperwork; it’s about balancing the mundane with the profound. It’s about creating a new life while carrying the weight of the past. Whether it’s the frustration of lost documents or the pain of separation from family, every step is a testament to resilience and hope.
Written by Wa Alikum Salam, Immigrant.
